We're celebrating Thrifty Traveler's 10th birthday today: It's somehow already been 10 years to the day since I hit publish on the very first post on this site. And over the course of the last decade, this site has grown from a passion project – a side hustle from my old day job – to a full-time team of nearly 30 and counting, dedicated to helping hundreds of thousands of travelers see the world for less.
But it's time I made a confession.
This website is not the original Thrifty Traveler. And I am not the original Thrifty Traveler.
Before there was thriftytraveler.com or our Thrifty Traveler Premium flight deal service, there was the Thrifty Traveler newsletter. It started way back in the early '90s, reaching 52,000 mailboxes (and, eventually, email inboxes).
And long before I ever thought to call myself “Mr. TT,” there was Mary VanMeer. Mary was the original Thrifty Traveler.
Let me explain.
I spent years building up expertise about the ins and outs of airfare, points, miles, and hotels while traveling across the U.S. as a bank examiner for the federal government. Then I spent months resisting the constant prodding from friends and family to put my knowledge to use. Once I finally decided to move ahead with a site, it took several months more of wracking my brain for the right name.
After weeding out some embarrassing candidates – Rewards Wiseguy and Miles Maximizer were both in the running … – I finally landed on Thrifty Traveler. Thriftytraveler.com would be the perfect hub to share what I knew, I thought.
It was taken.
The original ThriftyTraveler.com was somewhat out of date and very out of style, more fit for 1999 than 2015. But it was exactly what I had envisioned – promising to be “the only travel-planning site you will ever need!”
The contact page led me to Mary VanMeer.
Mary and I traded emails over the course of the next year, and she was hesitant about the prospect of handing over the reins of ThriftyTraveler.com. Not because she was out for a big payday in exchange for the domain name, but because she spent decades pouring her heart and soul into her printed travel newsletter and website.
She told me the story of when, in 1993, she decided – much like I did – to put her life of travel to use and launched a printed travel newsletter. She relayed with pride when she got a shoutout in Newsday for the help she was giving aspiring travelers. She recounted her trips to New Orleans, Florida, New York City, and across the world.
She had built something, and she was understandably nervous to let it go. Finally, she sent me an email I'll never forget.
“You can see why I'm very much attached to the thriftytraveler.com name. But maybe it's time to let someone else nurture it,” Mary wrote. “Let me put it this way: I certainly have no intentions of ‘putting it on the market'; but if YOU want it, I'm open to that.”
With Mary's blessing, I officially launched the new Thrifty Traveler on April 29, 2015. A decade later, you can see bits and pieces of Mary everywhere, thanks to the advice she'd occasionally send me while following along even after handing off the reins.
She insisted that I keep the website simple, and not distract would-be travelers from the help they needed with flashy graphics. She warned me that Thrifty Car Rental would probably come after me to complain about the name. She was right … but they backed off.
Mary urged me to put up a photo of my wife and myself on the site to make a personal connection with readers – “People connect better with faces ;),” she needled me. That was the seed behind our ongoing efforts to showcase the real, awesome humans on our team, from our new podcast to our burgeoning YouTube channel.
As the site started to snowball, Mary and I would chat every so often. She was tenacious but funny, and kind yet helpful. And without fail, she would end every email with congratulations: “I'm really proud of what you've done. Awesome.”
Then a few more months passed. I sent Mary another email with a few questions – one of many I'd sent her over the last few years. This time I didn't get a response.
Mary VanMeer passed away on Oct. 14, 2016. She was 68.
In the years since, I made Thrifty Traveler my full-time job and launched a flight deal subscription service, brought dozens of like-minded travelers into the fold, published thousands of stories, expanded into social media, and even started a podcast. The Thrifty Traveler of 2025 looks a lot different than it did in 2015, let alone 1993.
But our mission – Mary's mission – remains unchanged: To help everyone travel more for less.
A while after she passed, one of Mary's friends sent me one of the original Thrifty Traveler newsletters. It's framed in our office.
And it's clear to me now that in all our back and forth about the website name, Mary wanted the assurance that the next ThriftyTraveler.com would live up to what she had painstakingly built over the prior two decades.
I hope we made you proud, Mary.
An amazing story of how Thrifty Traveler started. It brought me to tears. Thank you for sharing it.
Mary entrusted you with a wonderful gift and you’re carrying the torch very well! Thank you for sharing this personal story 🙂
Lovely story amd and you are doing her proud. I so agree about keeping it simple and using a personal connection. Both are what I find most appealing about the way you present your deep expertise. Keep up the good work and happy anniversary. Or is it birthday?
What a terrific, heartwarming story! Mary would be proud of where you’ve been able to take the brand over the past 5 years.
What a great story, thank you for sharing! It’s very honorable of you to mention her and how you got the name.
So sweet – thanks for sharing – who knew?
Wonderful story. My late husband and I founded a small niche travel business in the 90’s. We felt the personal touch was all important and, consequently, made so little money that we closed in 2000. However, I would not trade the experience for anything and the memories are forever.
Thanks for sharing Francine! We definitely did not make money for several years either but it’s fun to be doing something our whole team is passionate about – helping everyone travel on the cheap 🙂
It is great to hear a story of people working together for a common good. These are the kinds of situations which allows society to move forward in a cooperative manner. So much more of this kind of collaboration is needed at a time where so much of the headlines is overwhelmed with divisive behaviors and the lack of people working together to help others. Bravo to you! Wishing you all the very best in your success and a long ride ahead!
Glad you enjoyed the story, Marc! Sadly our world is full of so much negativity. Thrifty Traveler’s core values of being honest, respectful, working hard, having fun, and taking risks are more than something written on paper. We hope you see it every day here on the site and through Thrifty Traveler Premium and Thrifty Traveler University. More to come 🙂
How incredibly gratifying it must have been for her to see how her legacy was going to live on~!
We’re looking forward to carrying the torch for years to come!
Great read. Did you two ever meet in person?
Sadly not. Really wish we had. She was a lovely person even if it was only by email or phone.
Thanks for sharing this great story! I am sure Mary is proud of you and watching over you.
Thanks, Anya – we think so too 🙂
Awh, all the feels. Thanks for sharing this part of the Thrifty Traveler story. I think you’ve definitely made Mary proud.
Thanks, Gia – we felt it was a story worth sharing 🙂